07/04/2021 - done with course

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i am done with the 20 vanilla web mini projects

why is coding kind of exhausting sometimes. i get really bad text neck since my posture sucks.

also done with the react native crash course. need to familiarise with the react native components, and the styling specificities. other than that it seems the same. i am glad react hooks is used.

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