30/08/2020 - nobody (truly) cares about you

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 https://www.quora.com/What-do-you-do-when-you-realize-nobody-truly-cares-about-you


If you truly realize that nobody cares about you, you are now 100% free. You now realize what the smallest sector of society sees. You are now free to live your life exactly the way you want. This covers EVERYTHING.

You are correct of course. Nobody truly cares about you. Not in the way I think you're getting at anyway. Mom and dad love ya. Hopefully. You love them. Hopefully. That's family. Hopefully, that's going well for you.



I realized that from a very young age. Next thing you know, I started caring less about what people thought of me. Instead, I naturally gravitated towards what I thought of them. That's the trick. To not harbor anger and resentment. Better yet, not to feel it in the first place. Sometimes it's an exercise in futility, but nobody is perfect.



Almost everyone is looking out for #1. The “selfless” people who start Missions in other countries and build communities in the poorer regions of the world voluntarily and without pay to help the starving? Selfless my butt. It makes THEM feel good about themselves and the fact that they are doing God's work and will therefore be that much closer to the Lord. Once again, looking out for #1.


words of wisdom from a person called dirk clarke on quora. 

this is rather ayn rand and buddhist.

 

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